Pride Month Is Next Week. I’m Not Sure How Visible I Want to Be Anymore. – The leaders of our movement are still the ones with nothing left to lose. Continue reading Pride Month 2026: Visibility Is Becoming Dangerous Again – If lists are being made, I’m fairly certain I’m already on them.
If you’re new to this blog or Autism month, you might be asking yourself, “What’s so bad about having a month to honor Autistic people? Isn’t awareness a good thing?” Which, in itself, brings up one of my biggest frustrations with this ‘special month for autism’: Continue reading Welcome to ‘Autism Month’ and Why, as an Actual Autistic Person, I am NOT a Fan of Having a ‘Month for Autism’
Why I Self-Published My Most Raw Book Yet – How Our Community Can Launch a Book: The Story Behind “The Weight of Normal”
Continue reading My New Book (‘The Weight of Normal’) Is Out NOW – And I’m Nervous…
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The Weight of Normal is a raw and powerful memoir of survival and awakening. It is an unflinching indictment of the systems of forced assimilation—the NeuroDivergent and Queer conversion “therapies”—that teach self-abandonment as a virtue. Continue reading New Book! NeuroDivergent Rebel’s The Weight of Normal – Preorder NOW (Available 12/16/25)
My entire life, my memory was like Swiss cheese. Then, after working on my trauma, a switch flipped. I could finally remember my days. That’s when I knew…
Continue reading ADHD, Complex Trauma, or BOTH? – A Fog Lifted: What Happened When I Finally Stopped Dissociating
Pride Existed Because Being Queer Was Illegal. If We Don’t Stop Project 2025 It Might Be Again Soon. They Want Us Back in Closets. Queer History and Stonewall Prove We Won’t Stay There. Continue reading Project 2025 aims to re-criminalize Queer existence — just like pre-Stonewall America.
David and I don’t ‘get out’ much. We also don’t have a habit of going places that charge admission fees very often, especially recently, because we’ve been in a period of ‘not spending’ since we’re trying to get ourselves to … Continue reading I don’t WANT to go back into the closet, but I don’t know if I will have a choice.
Learning how to break free from harmful patterns to build healthier, happier connections.
Continue reading The Unseen Legacy: How Childhood Relationships Affect Our Adult Lives
It was difficult for me to “go along” with what they taught in Sunday school, and when they told us people who “don’t know God go to hell,” I took it literally.
Continue reading The Child Abuse People Don’t Talk About: Religious Indoctrination – The Trauma of Childhood Brainwashing
The coming out process is not a singular event but a recurring journey that many Queer People bravely and resiliently navigate throughout our lives, demonstrating ongoing courage, resilience, and the need for continuous support. Continue reading The Never-Ending Story, Coming Out, Again and Again: Why Coming Out is a Lifelong Process
